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Letting Go

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 To Let Go

*does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

*is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization that I can’t control another.

*is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

*is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

*is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

*is not to care for, but to care about.

*is not to fix, but to be supportive.

*is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

*is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to effect their destinies.

*is not to be protective, its to permit another to face reality.

*is not to deny, but to accept.

*is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

*is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

*is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream to be.

*is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

*is to fear less, and love more.

~courtesy of Mile Hi Church

“Let Go and Let God…As children bring their broken toys with tears for us to mend, I brought my broken dreams to God, because God is my friend.  But then, instead of leaving God in peace to work alone I hung around and tried to help, with ways that were my own.  At last, I snatched them back and cried, “How can you be so slow?”  “My child,” God said, “What could I do?  You never did let go!” ~ unknown